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The Mosquitos of Puerto Rico Love Me!

One thing we have been combating living here are all the biting and stinging creatures. Britton has been stung by a few bees and more than a few ants. I have stepped directly into two huge ant piles and did the ants-in-my-pants dance trying to shake them off and run from the pile at the same time as they bit and stung their fire poison into my poor feet.

We kind of expect it when we are outside, but the hardest thing to get used to are all the bugs INSIDE! Between cleaning out the perimeter around the house and Kitty killing them, most of the cockroaches have (thankfully) disappeared. So lately our biggest (little) enemies have been the mosquitoes -they especially love me! When we are working in the yard we make sure to wear strong bug repellents but usually when we come back into the cabana we shower and wash it all off because we don’t like all those chemicals inside the house or on our skin.

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Darn mosquito got my leg!

So we were sort of sitting ducks for the smart little suckers- the mosquitos of Puerto Rico- because they were inside as well! In Colorado the mosquitos are pretty big, slow and dumb. You can easily smack them as they fly mid-air or when they land on your body. Here in Puerto Rico we could tell they were different. They are small, nimble and strike most often when your guard is down.

Especially at the ankles. We call them little ankle biters. That’s why I started wearing these mosquito-repelling bracelets/anklets that are infused with plant oils (like lemon eucalyptus or geranoil) that aren’t attractive to mosquitos. From ant attacks to these mosquitoes, my feet and ankles have definitely felt the brunt of the attacks and I may have scars from the scratching that ensues later.

The mosquitoes go after your feet and ankles for a couple of reasons: 1) feet are smellier and sweatier than other areas -very attractive to these little vampires and 2) you don’t notice your feet as much as other parts of your body -until too late.

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One less mosquito!

So I did a little research about the mosquitos of Puerto Rico and found that they are a different species than those in Colorado. The main species you have to worry about in Colorado are the Culex variety -those that carry West Nile Virus. Here in Puerto Rico it is the Aedes mosquito, specifically the Aedes Aegypti that carry the viruses of Dengue Fever and Yellow Fever.

They are considered better flyers and found in tropical areas. They also need flooded areas to breed unlike the Colorado varieties that need still water to breed. This also explains why many times in the dry season (winter) when we have been in Puerto Rico, we didn’t see a single mosquito. The Aedes mosquito likes to hide in dark spaces -like under beds, in closets, on the floor of our truck cab and as we have found, even in our kitchen cabinets! They are like the monsters under the bed eating at our ankles when we are sitting on the bed, when climbing into the truck or chewing on us as we sleep!

So we have devised a plan against these blood suckers. Outside we use the stronger repellents including those that contain DEET (ugh). We keep the doors and truck windows shut at all times to keep them from entering and hiding out. If we see that there are some in the house, then we wear our “indoor” plant-based repellents, burn citronella candles and light incense. We also run the fans to make them lose their direction when in flight.

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Our inside arsenal against mosquitoes

So far this has been working and it is nice to sleep without the buzzing in our ears that means bites are imminent. We also considered getting a mosquito net over the bed, but I think if we can just keep those doors closed we can decrease the problem greatly. Life in the tropics is ever a learning experience in things big and small.

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Enormity of Freedom

I woke up the other day, poured some coffee and sat on the front stoop of the cabana.  I was staring blankly at the thick foliage of the green forest before I started my day of weed whacking, chopping and clearing away walking paths thru the thickness.  It was then that it hit me in a way it hadn’t really before.  We made it.  We have achieved our goal of moving to a tropical island.  All of the work, all of the planning and all of the saving has gotten us here.  I felt it as an emotion this time instead of a logical thought.
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Free as a bird in the jungle

Thinking about doing something can never actually replace the experience of actually doing it.  It is now that we are here, that we can have the experience.   A new plant requires the brain to look up in our vast memory and see if we have information about it.  New smells, new sights and new people all require the brain to do some work.  Since I have no information about much of anything here, it requires inspection and storage of the new info.  The constant processing of new information reminds us of what it was like to be children again.  With that comes learning, thinking and mistakes.

What is a truly awakening idea, is that everything that we do and think, we are in control of.  If we want to paint a wall, it is because we have the belief that the wall needs to be painted.  If we don’t like the way something is, it is because we have decided for whatever reason, that it shouldn’t be that way.  There are very few actual truths and we have the freedom to decide what to think about almost everything.

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Who has left the cage

Having grown up in a public school system that was and is designed to cultivate ‘productive members of society’, that think a certain way and behave in a particular manner and hold similar beliefs, it is a enormous realization that it is actually I that gets to decide most everything.  Now actually doing this is very difficult as most of my beliefs were installed and then that’s just the way it is.  Realizing that if I don’t like something it is simply because I have decided I don’t like it, is becoming a powerful tool.  Can’t I just as easily decide to like it?

Tell me what I said I’d never do
Tell me what I said I’d never say
Read me off a list of the things
I used to not like, but now I think are okay
-Ben Folds Five Lyric

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A tropical weed or simple beauty?

This head game became a challenge when thinking about weeds in my lawn back in Colorado.  Dandelions were growing!  Not taking the perspective that they are actually pretty flowers, which they are, but rather choosing to see them as invaders that were disrupting the uniformity of my green lawn.  It became a problem that had to be dealt with!  Even the radio ads were telling me that these weeds needed to be killed with chemical poisons that were available at my local hardware store.  I don’t want to be “that guy” the ad told me “that has all the weeds in his lawn”.

Once I changed my thinking life went a little more smoothly.  They aren’t weeds, they’re flowers.  And as Cassie has pointed out to me, they are actually medicine and food too.  I think this was the beginning of the realization of what actual freedom is.  Apparently advertisers understand this, so they try to get you to believe that you have these ‘problems’ that their product can fix.  It’s kind of a hijacking of ones thoughts. You can still choose to kill the dandelions or you can choose not to. But it is a CHOICE, not a given that they are bad things. They just exist. Whatever opinion of them is not the thing itself. It can be seen in many different ways, if you are open to that kind of freedom of thought.

I almost didn’t write about this subject because having total freedom of choice regarding what to think about, seems so obvious, yet in my day in and day out life I rarely if ever actually employed it.

A lot of people wouldn’t live how we are living.  We live in a small space.  Here on the island we have bugs, rats, and poverty.  We have chosen no A/C or phone (except Google Voice now) or cable TV and yet somehow I am the happiest I’ve been in a long time.  I think this is due to the fact that this is what I have chosen to do and I have the ability to see these things as benefits. This is the enormity of freedom.

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No stove, no problem. Grilling outside any time of year!

Some might see rats and bees as bad things, but that means there is food/fruit everywhere.  No A/C might be seen as too hot and uncomfortable, whereas I see it as one less thing to depend on for comfort that will one day break and require larger and larger bills to fuel.  Poverty to me is much easier to fit my life around because that means the cost of living is lower, there aren’t as many expectations to drive nice cars, to have perfect landscaping or to obtain that status job. A small indoor living quarters means a lot of life goes on outdoors instead of in. Perspective.

It has been said that you can change the way you look at things, and the things you look at will change.  I am finding this to be true and that is a big part of being free. And the things I look at every day here are just amazing!

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Living Without a Phone and Internet

Can it be done? In this day and age can we live without a phone or internet? The question really is, can we live without a phone or internet bill?

We are attempting to answer that question here in Puerto Rico.

A lot of our challenges in living here are self-imposed. We could easily get a phone and internet plan, for instance, however, we want to see what our needs are versus our wants. And when you just replicate the life you left, you never actually get to find out that answer. Plus by going without we learn how to find work-arounds rather than just the easy, but expensive way.

And actually in Colorado, we both had phones paid for by our work, but we haven’t had a phone bill in a long time and we weren’t too excited to start paying a subscription of $50-100/month for that service. Same thing for internet.

For internet here, we have been using WiFi at various locations throughout town as well as the open WiFi signal that we can pick up on the roof of the cabana. That worked fine, except when it would rain. I tried to be out there in the rain once under a towel, but just got soaked!

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Our rainy Internet café

But overall, we have been here for over a month and I would say that in general, yes we can definitely live without a phone or internet subscription. There is nothing so pressing that we have to be tethered to a phone or internet all day long.

But occasionally it is nice to be connected. Internet needs were met pretty well, but about two weeks after we arrived I wanted to call my mom. So we kept our eyes out for a pay phone and we found one at the Econo Grocery Store in Rincón!
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Public Payphone: A rare sighting nowadays

We were stoked to have a resource like this for other occasional calls we may need to make, like lining up bee removal, tile installation, labor, etc.

We made our first call to my mom using the credit card feature –against my gut feeling that we should just use change. I never like paying for something without actually knowing the bill amount. The call went fine.

A couple of days later, however my instincts turned out to be correct as we checked our bank account and saw a charge of $52 for telephonic services! Well geeze, if we were going to spend $52 on 10 minute phone call, we would just get a cell phone! We thought that must be a mistake because the rates on the payphone were like 50 cents for 5 minutes. Maybe it was a holding charge that would go away? We determined to find out, but we would need to call our bank in Colorado –using the very same pay phone! Thankfully, it was a toll free number and so we didn’t have to pay anything or give out any credit card numbers to call them.

The bank representative looked at the charge and said that it was a scam of some sort that a secondary party intercepted the credit card (debit card actually) number and charged that amount. She said they would reverse the charges in 5 business days and that we would need to get a new debit card since those numbers were compromised. What a pain! But it all worked out. The charges were reversed and a new card was sent out- to our forwarding address (Britton’s parent’s house in Greeley) since we still haven’t been able to set up mail service here (a LONG story that will hopefully be resolved soon).

The replacement card has arrived (thanks Barb for sending our mail to us general delivery), but we are supposed to activate it with our home phone -haha! Joke’s on us.  We will probably have to use that same pay phone and hope that it will work since it’s obviously not a home or cell number.

So, there have been some inconveniences especially when people ask for our phone number. It is just assumed you would have a phone. But if people really want to talk with us they just come to our house, like Rafael who sold us the blue guagua, or Dave who will be helping us with the remodeling of the wood house. We have no doorbell either, so a honk of the horn alerts us to visitors! Or people can connect with us via email or Facebook.

Every now and then Britton will have phantom cell phone vibrations from his traumatic experience with having to carry a cell phone at every moment including when he was on-call and had to sleep with it by his side. I never carried my cell phone with me since it was strictly for work purposes, so I think it has been a little easier for me to adjust to the no-phone lifestyle. We are not sure if we ever will get a phone, but for now it is working out. It is actually a really freeing feeling.

And as for phone calls to my mom in the future, we just had our first Facebook Skype session. Hey, even better than a phone call because we can see and hear each other and it’s free (thanks Laura for helping out)!

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Trying to show up on Skype with my mom in the dark -the flash of the camera

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Aren’t You Afraid of Hurricanes?

This is another common question we get from people when we tell them that we are moving to the Caribbean.

This seems a strange question coming from people in Colorado. Right this instant we are experiencing massive rains and flooding that is causing severe devastation especially to areas near the rivers. Roads are closed down, some people are stranded and some areas are shutting down municipal water service due to possible contamination. Some of our friends and former next door neighbors live(d) in one of the trailers in Riverside Park in Evans shown in this video. Their home and car have been completely damaged and are probably unsalvageable. They had to swim inside their home in shoulder deep water to just scrape together a few of their floating belongings.

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This is a river about 1 mile north of our house. Thankfully we are still high and dry

While this is definitely one of the wildest weather rides we’ve had in a while, it is not isolated. Colorado has some of the most extreme climates ever. In just the last 6 months alone we have had raging wildfires, huge hail storms that demolished whole cars, sides of houses and rooves (one of which was a rental of ours), extreme heat that caused schools to close, tornados touching down with winds in excess of 50 MPH and snow blizzards with temperatures 20 to 30 degrees below 0 F! And again this is just in the last 6 months mind you!

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This is the baseball field in Evans near Riverside

So it seems sort of bizarre when people from Colorado ask us if we are afraid of hurricanes in Puerto Rico. I’d say coming from Colorado we are probably more prepared for extreme, bipolar weather than most. When people ask this it is interesting that they do not see where they live as being an extreme climate sort of place. We (humans) tend to exaggerate risk when it is outside of our control, and minimize it when we are more familiar.

I am sure a hurricane would be a crazy intense thing to go through, but just like these crazy and intense things in Colorado, we would get through it. It will be tough to clean up and deal with the aftermath of these and future disasters, but life WILL go on. People will pull through as we always seem to do. We need to help each other out in times like these. We need to show our very best side. If there is any silver lining in these huge natural disasters it is at the very least, this.

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This photo was taken by an aerial news reporter and shows the trailer homes floating in the flooded river

There is no sense in being afraid of future possible calamities. They are bound to happen whether you are afraid or not, so you might as well face them head on. We will continue to do our best to be prepared and avoid high risks, but life is full of disasters of one kind or another around every bend. We must be flexible and adaptable. We must be compassionate and community-oriented. We must be calm and not panic or exaggerate. We are from Colorado after all, right?! We can get through anything. So if you ask, I might remind you of this and say, no, we are definitely not afraid of hurricanes.

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