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Raising a Baby on a Budget

If you’ve been following this blog for any time, you know that we retired young and moved to the Caribbean to live the life of our dreams. Some people have made the comment to us that it is all fine and dandy to do that as a single person or couple, but it is altogether different with kids. And that is somewhat true. Having a child changes a lot about your life and realigns priorities quick. Children definitely don’t make things any cheaper.

However, I would say that it is completely feasible to live financially independent with kid(s). Being frugal and budget minded was what got us here and it certainly doesn’t (or shouldn’t) go away when you have kids. If you have good financial habits you just sort of incorporate them into the new life with child. Here are a few tips and tricks we have learned so far in our journey as frugal parents.

Hand-me-downs!
Baby stuff only lasts a short while. Take any offer of hand-me-downs that you can get, whether as a gift or bought secondhand. Many times they are only 3-6 months old and in great shape. We have a hand-me-down crib, breast pump, carriers and lots and lots of clothes and toys among other things. The only thing we have bought new was a dresser/changing table.


Photo credit: Laura Malischke

Breast feeding
Breastfeeding is not as easy as it looks and can even be painful (as it was for me in the beginning), so I completely sympathize with moms who aren’t able to do it, or do it for long. But it really is the best gift you can give your baby to start them out: from a strong immune system to parental/child bonding, it is an amazing thing. But the added bonus is that it is free! If you added up how much we would be spending on formula we have probably already saved hundreds of dollars.

Diapers
I really wish I could say that I use the reusable diapers we were given more than I do. We don’t have a washer and dryer near the house (actually we don’t have a dryer at all), so cleaning diapers would be a huge chore. That said, they are a great money-saving and environmentally friendly option and we have used them some. The good thing about disposables, however, is that you don’t have to change them very often because they can soak up a LOT of liquid, so one diaper often lasts through a whole night and you don’t need to worry about diaper rash as much. We were gifted a huge pack of diapers when Aeden was born and have only recently gone through them. I estimate we will need to spend about $40/month on them until he’s ready to be potty trained (around 2 years old).

Healthcare
Thankfully here in Puerto Rico health care and insurance isn’t too expensive. To have our baby covered by health insurance is about $90/month and has very low co-pays ($10/doctor visit).


Britton and Aeden by the sea

So all in all our expenses have increased about $150/month since having our baby which isn’t too bad! Since we are both home we can do things to increase our income (like selling flowers, renting out the cabana, etc) and take turns watching the child. Babies really don’t need much. They just need to be fed, cleaned and loved. And that, my friends, is priceless.

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Money Matters: How We Live On Just $1000/Month

Some people have asked for more specifics about how we were able to up and move to Puerto Rico and essentially retire before either of us turned 35. Well, let me first start this series with our budget. Your budget is sort of like your diet. It can be healthy or not, but it certainly does reflect what’s important to you. For us, living a bit more wild and free choosing how we wanted to spend our time was far more important than a lot of consumer items we could buy. Obviously not everyone wants to live like we do. But it certainly IS possible. And I would say having more freedom is worth every penny we don’t spend. If you are interested in the cost of living in general in Puerto Rico, check out this post: Cost of Living in PR.

Money Tree
Don’t we all wish we had a money tree?!

We live on only about $1000 a month. This is probably a shockingly low amount for most people, but it’s really just fine for us and it is very close to the amount we spent in Colorado except that we had a mortgage there. Less really is more and we still have a lot of fun and this is a pretty loose budget. If we needed to live on less I could probably get this down to about $700/month or $8,000/year if needed. So how does that $1000/month break down for us?

BUDGET BREAKDOWN

$500 -Food/alcohol. Approximately $100-$130/week grocery bill equates to about $500/month. While we grow a good 50% of our food it still costs a lot to buy food and alcohol. I value good, nutritious food, so this might be more than someone who just buys cheap junk processed food. Still eating in is by far cheaper (and way healthier) than eating out. This breaks down to less than $3 per meal per person (3 meals a day). If you counted the snacks/beer/coffee that we don’t go out to buy it’s even less!

Bananas
A banana tree is pretty close!

$100- Vehicle. Travel. Truck gas, marbete and maintenance like tires. We try not to drive too much and this is probably closer to $75/month but also gives some room for long distance travel or a random large mechanical problem.

$75- Going out for food. We don’t eat out much, but just a light lunch for two is about $20. Let alone a dinner. So we only go out to eat about 3 or 4 times a month.

Taco Food
Living in a tourist town can be expensive if you eat like a tourist very often! $8 for a couple of tacos is pretty common

$75 – Partying/hanging out. Hard to admit, but yah, going out once or twice a month to a bar or whatever is expensive when you start buying drinks/rounds! At least we get paid a little when we do it with the band!

$50- Clothing. We don’t buy this monthly but this would probably be an average of about $500-600/year.

$50 -Random household goods/repairs. Kitchen items, Kitty food, makeup, cleaning supplies, small tools, Rx. Stuff like that.

$50- Farm Expenses. Bird food, new plants, plant care, yard tools. Though some of this is capital improvements and/or comes back in the sale of eggs/produce or in that we don’t have to buy as much food at the store.

$50 -Utilities. Water, electricity and internet. Appx $15 each. We don’t have air conditioning or a clothes dryer and although we sometimes water our plants or mix concrete it still doesn’t seem to jump up much. Sharing is caring when it comes to internet and many other things.

$25- Medical. Doctor/Dentist -Rarely needed. Probably not even this much.

$25- Other miscellaneous expenses that inevitably pop up. Also gifts/donations.

What’s missing?
A mortgage/rent. We have no mortgage on this property. Living expenses are generally the largest expense most people have. So to be free from this is incredibly important in being able to live simply/inexpensively.
Other debt. We have no other personal debt. No student loans. No credit card balance. No home equity lines. No car payments. We live simply and don’t like debt unless it earns us money directly above and beyond what it costs to service the debt and even then I don’t really like it.
Costs related to investments in CO. Those go back into the business so aren’t counted as part of living expenses.
Most insurances. We self insure, so I suppose in a way our savings pays for this but it’s not a monthly or yearly expense.
Taxes. We pay very little taxes except sales tax. One big benefit of making less money is not having to pay much in income taxes! Property tax is $40/year or less than $4/month. Counted in other misc.
Costs related to construction. This was saved for prior to the move.
Many utilities. We don’t pay for a cell phone. We don’t have cable or even a TV. We don’t pay heating (there is no need for heating). No one pays for garbage service in PR.
Hair cuts, landscaping, car and house maintenance and other stuff we can do ourselves.
Costs related to children or divorces (like child support/alimony). Keepin’ it simple!
Very many dumb purchases. Sorry to say but some things like cigarettes, lottery tickets or bottled water are just not smart for a variety of reasons including your health, the environment and of course your budget. Alcohol is our one dumb purchase and we limit it to about $50-100/month. If we needed to save more it would be the first thing to go.
Retirement payments. We are already living it!
Most Entertainment. Most of our screen audio/visual entertainment comes from the internet.
Savings. We still save each month, but this budget list is only for expenses that are not recouped.
Travel/Vacations. This is captured under vehicle somewhat, but we can also use savings. Though I haven’t left the island in over two years, so it’s not really an expense currently. Traveling is super expensive in general!

Guajataca tunnel BK CK
Livin’ it up in Puerto Rico!

So that’s it! That’s what we spend our money on. We took a huge pay cut to move to Puerto Rico, but it didn’t really hurt because we lived on this basic budget in Colorado even when we were making a LOT more.  Though a lot of focus is on salary or pay, it doesn’t really matter what you make. It matters much more what you spend. Again to compare a diet, just as you can’t outexercise a bad diet (if you are eating more than you burn), you can’t outearn a bad spending habit (if you are spending more than you earn). You may be making a million dollars a day, but if you are spending two million you’re doing much worse than someone like us who makes maybe $1200/month but only spends $1000.

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Living a Self-Directed Life

In all of our striving to move to Puerto Rico, what was the underlying motivation? Great weather, new and friendly culture, growing/raising our own food, adventure? Yes, and more yeses!

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But truly the biggest motivation to moving here was to live a self-directed life. We just happened to choose this beautiful island in the Caribbean as the setting for our life. It could be wherever when you are truly directing your life. We could have stayed in Colorado, even, but decided to steer our lives toward something new and exciting to us.

I think that both Britton and I would say that we didn’t mind our 8-5 lives. We both added something of value in a small way at the places we worked. We felt the work we did was important to society and we both felt challenged personally with what we did every day. But there was one big thing missing: self-direction.

If you are working for someone else, you are by definition not self-directed. You are under the direction of the organization or business and under the direction of a supervisor or boss who makes sure you follow the larger goals of that organization. This is fine, and it is how most of society works. However, for people who want to write their own stories rather than play a part in someone else’s this may not be enough.

And for us, it wasn’t enough. So after work and on the weekends rather than just going to the movies or out to eat or shopping or some (usually expensive) hobby, we found things that would ultimately help us break free of the earn wages/spend wages vicious cycle. We went out and found investment properties, remodeled and managed them.  We sold stuff at the farmer’s market from our tiny garden. We rented out rooms in our house to medical students.

And while it was a lot of work and sometimes we felt that we were pushed to the edge,  these were the activities that ultimately helped push us over to financial independence and a full-time self-directed life, instead of just part-time.

Some people may not be confident in their ability to live a fully self-directed life, because this means that all of the risks are yours alone. There is no net beneath you. But on the flip side, this also means that all of the rewards are yours too! And people who choose to self-direct must be creative and envision what their life would look like if they could design it all themselves. This is not always easy if you are used to following someone else’s lead in being told what to do and what a final product should look like. That is why practicing part-time was a great way to prepare us for our full-time freedom. We tried to practice things at a small level that we knew we would also enjoy here in Puerto Rico, things like raising chickens, growing tropical plants in our living room, and having guests stay with us.

Baby Coffee Plants in Coffee Mug
We grew coffee beans inside in Colorado! Practice makes perfect!

That way, once we had the income part of the equation down, then came the fun part! We asked ourselves: What would we do with our time, when all of it belonged to us? Sure, we knew we would be “retired” but that doesn’t mean do nothing. And it’s a good thing we thought about this because in fact, it is quite the opposite. We just get to choose what it is. Sometimes it is working really hard in the hot sun, because it is worth it to us. Other times, it is paying someone else to do that because it is not. But all of the “work” is toward a vision that Britton and I design together.

In the case of our property here in Puerto Rico, we envision a lush tropical oasis with cabins, gazebos, water features, animals roaming around, an edible forest with fruit trees and gardens, jungle paths, treehouses and more. And in larger terms, this oasis of ours will serve as our base for any other travels, adventures and ideas we may think up in 5-10 years time.

Chickens and path
Happy chickens surrounded by food and flowers

This is simply an example of our what a self-directed life could be. It is filled with activities that make us feel that we are accomplishing something. We knew that we wouldn’t be content with just going to the beach every day (or some other similar activity). That is always fun, but it is just the reward or icing on the cake for moving toward our goals. Because we are self-motivated people, what we have realized is that we will constantly need something to work towards. When our dreams and big ideas begin to dwindle we will know we must be toward the end our life.

For me, happiness follows this equation: something to do, someone(s) to love and something to look forward to. When we are out here working on all of these things together, we may in the moment be groaning, but in the grand scheme of things we are in our element! We are exactly where we directed ourselves to be. We still are chock full of so many great, crazy and zany ideas! Life is a marvelous place when you set into motion your dreams and steer toward them every day.

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