Sept 10 is the zenith of hurricane probability
Ever since Hurricane Maria, hurricane season has become something different in our minds. We came to Puerto Rico very naive about hurricanes, and we lived here for 4 years with basically nothing ever happening. We had an occasional tropical storm, but we’ve had stronger aguaceros (downpours) come out of the blue. But Maria changed all of that optimism and surety. We have a deep underlying trauma associated with hurricanes now. On the surface, our logical brain tells us that if we can survive 2 + months of living like primitive people we can survive anything! But underneath, our subconscious says “Ah, hell no. I don’t want to do that again!” So we have our conscious and subconscious minds competing against each other.
This time last year I was 8 months pregnant going through hurricane season!
I was particularly nervous last year for a few reasons, most notably that I was pregnant with a due date right around the climatic probability of storms. After the birth my medical care turned out to be VERY lacking as it was without a storm, so I can only imagine how bad it would have had there been no electricity, water or medical supplies. I am SO grateful everything turned out ok. It was iffy there for a bit. My medical care nightmare is probably for another day, but suffice it to say, I don’t ever want to be in another major medical emergency in Puerto Rico with or without a hurricane looming.
Last year in our tropical gardens
One of our neighbors is currently about as pregnant as I was, so we thought it would be fun to do a photoshoot in our gardens that we have finally named. Since Puerto Rico is La Isla del Encanto (The Isle of Enchantment), we named our farm/gardens The Garden of Enchantment. You can check out our new Facebook page and give it a like if you want. Julie is about as nervous as I was having her first baby in an unfamiliar land and so we thought it would be a nice de-stressor to take a little of that anxiety away and focus on the beauty that she is emanating! I gathered materials from all over the gardens and made her a flower crown to make her a jungle queen.
Here’s a “How-to” Video on the making of the crown.
It turned out so nice.
Even Aeden got to check out his jungle friend in making
When we heard a storm called Dorian was forming and heading straight for us, our nerves started to fray a little. We turned on the hurricane brain and started prepping. Extra gas, water, food, batteries, clean out the cistern, shut the windows, check, check, check.
There are always runs on water. We just rinse out and refill our jugs
Day of Dorian right outside Econo…wouldn’t think anything was abnormal!
Dorian thankfully turned anticlimactic and didn’t even really have any rain. But it did bring back lots of memories. We ended up going to a pool party for a friend who is moving away. We had even partied at Yukayeke a lot after Maria, so the recollections are stacked. Strange how much that period of time is embedded in our psyches now.
Yukayeke Resort in Anasco from the road
Living in the tropics of Puerto Rico is 90% awesome. We get to live like we’re on vacation! But interspersed are moments of sheer panic and annoyance. I guess there’s nowhere on Earth that is 100% paradise all the time. But to me, this sure comes close. Even in hurricane season. It gives us all a little something to get worked up about I guess. No one would read a story if it didn’t have some complications to resolve.
I’d be very interested in hearing about your experiences with the medical system here. We’ve not yet had any emergencies, but we have had routine care and have no complaints there, aside from the fact that we have to visit multiple offices for routine things like bloodwork. In the back of my mind though, I have a severe paranoia about what will happen if we ever have a true medical emergency here.
Ok I will try to work on it. It was quite traumatic for me and I am still processing it. I still sometimes wake up with nightmares from it. Completely unacceptable and scary. I try not to generalize my specific situation to Puerto Rico as a whole but it was bad. Very, very bad. I am lucky to be alive. I wrote about it briefly after it happened here:
http://www.lifetransplanet.com/2018/09/29/without-love-where-would-you-be-now/
And here (when they didn’t take care of the problem the first time)
http://www.lifetransplanet.com/2018/10/16/re-establishing-a-new-normal-with-baby/
Cassie, great post on hurricane traumatic memories, I can only imagine. I would also like more information on your experience with the medical care problems you experienced unless it brings up to many bad memories. All the best to you guys and so happy Durian didn’t land!
Wow, Cassie. I’m so sorry to hear about that. I follow your blog and had read those articles, but I guess I didn’t fully grasp the scope of what had happened / that the medical care was sub-par. I had just assumed that it was a scary thing that could have happened anywhere. I’m sorry that you had to go through that ordeal. We live in Mayagüez and I have studied the various hospitals for HOURS because I’m worried about going through something trauamatic like what you went through.
Please only share if you’re comfortable. I definitely didn’t intend for you to have to relive the trauma.
Thanks Kevin!
Immediately after it happened I was in shock and had so much to be grateful for (like being alive to see my baby). I am still so glad that there was some medical care available (like blood transfusions), but in so many ways we wouldn’t have been in the emergency we were in had better preventative measures been taken and had they treated me when I had the first symptoms (and thereafter each associated issue). So many points of failure and had we not been a squeaky wheel over and over again, I am not sure how it would have turned out. If you ever go to the hospital here for acute care the main thing to remember is, MAKE SURE TO HAVE AN ADVOCATE WITH YOU. A family member or anyone who can just always be with you 24/7. Nursing/care is very limited so you have to have someone who will act as your voice when you are incapacitated.